Though homosexuality continues to gain cultural acceptance, many who consider themselves gay or experience homosexual tendencies feel puzzled and even apprehensive about their sexuality If this is normal, why am I so confused? Do I have a choice in the matter? Perhaps you €™ve struggled with same-sex attraction, making you wonder if you €™re gay. Maybe you €™ve even sought to meet your needs for companionship and acceptance through a same-gender relationship. If so, realize that you do have a choice in the matter. You €™re not simply €świred that way. €ť For those with unanswered questions or a desire to change, we offer a compassionate message of transformation and truth.

Background Information

Born Gay?
How can you debunk the claim of biological determinism?

Struggling With Homosexuality
These questions and answers are designed to help men and women dealing with same-sex attraction work through the confusion.

The Causes of Homosexuality
Here are three possible reasons why your child is gay.

The Guilt of Homosexuality
Are parents to blame when their son or daughter comes out of the "closet"?

Questions and Answers

I have reviewed studies conducted in recent years that seemingly indicate homosexuality is in the genes and is therefore involuntary. Do you agree?


Finding His Way Out
One man proves it is possible to escape the grip of homosexuality.

My Father's Closet
When Dad leaves Mom for another woman, the wounds are deep. But what do you do when he leaves for another man?

Not What I'd Expected
Having a gay father-in-law was the beginning of lessons on love and compassion amidst different beliefs and values.

When Your Spouse is Gay
This perspective about homosexuality in marriage comes from a Christian counselor.

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